It just happens. There is that special moment in a women’s life when you say, “I’m done.” You may be standing in line at Wal-Mart or sitting in traffic. All of a sudden you become someone you declared you would NEVER become: THEM. What made you change? One word: Hormones.
This why I was so taken (and took) this photo. In case you do not know what this wad is, it is a girdle, pantyhose and maybe a pair of drawers. I did not investigate the UFO…..Unidentified Female Objects. The message in the left-over lingerie was clear, “I have had it wearing this thing that makes we have a muffin-top and feel like I will throw-up.”
In my new book, “Bury Me With My Pearls” I believe from the oyster shell to the development of a full-grown pearl, we have definitive moments when change comes. You decide that for the remainder of your life, things are going to be different. You set boundaries and borders. High principled thinking becomes your target as opposed to low-functioning reacting. Tah-Dah! A pearl is born and you delightfully add it to your strand. You learned it and earned it! One of the absolute best parts of this process is that you can share it or help others with their challenges.
That wad or drawers just spoke to my heart and the rest of me. So many women have made comments like, “Good for her!” “You GO, Girl!” “I feel the same way!” Most of the men say, “Grunt noise” which can be taken either way. I do not think they get it. I have always said that if a man wants to make something great happen one day, put on a pair of pantyhose. Men don’t realize that this is the secret to success. The way I look at it, if you are going to decide to be that uncomfortable, make it worth your while.
Enjoy the first few pages of my “Pearls” book. #pearlsbook Also I have added this funny new video called, “Hormones.”
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